Use subPath for ydb config

[kobzonega]

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What is the current behavior?

The current configuration management logic in ydb-operator works like this:

• Inline configuration from Storage .spec.configuration is placed in the ConfigMap.
• A StatefulSet is created with a link to the ConfigMap created
• Thus, changing the configuration causes the static config to be updated almost immediately in all running pods
• If the process unexpectedly exits, the pod will launch with a new configuration.

We want to reach a state where the creation process with a new configuration and a link to the updated ConfigMap occurs only when a pod is deleted.

Issue Number: YDBOPS-8801

What is the new behavior?

• mountPath for pod volumeMount with ConfigMap by absolute path to file
• add subPath with link to api.ConfigFileName that prevent ConfigMap updates for container
• annotation ydb.tech/configuration-checksum with value of sha hash of current configuration used
• labels ydb.tech/storage-generation and ydb.tech/database-generation with values from the object they were created from
• some unit-tests to check label and annotation propagation to podTemplate

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