[Serve] Add timeout parameter for `deploy`

[ArzelaAscoIi]

Description

It would be helpful to have a public-facing timeout for deploy.

Optionally: rollback the deployment request.

Use case

Since this parameter is currently set to -1 by default and it is not passed to the deploy method. Without being able to set this parameter your process might end up waiting for more worker nodes, but your cluster already started 10/10 nodes.
In this case it would be helpful to set this timeout and retry later, since other deployments might have been removed.

You can find a draft of this here: master...ArzelaAscoIi:enhancement/timeoutForServeDeployments
(This does not include some rollback of the request)

Workarounds are:
1. First checking if there are sufficient available resources
2. Adding a manual timeout implementation <- this would not roll back the deployment request

[cszhu]

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